A life and death matter divorcing couples should consider is life insurance. Most couples get some form of life insurance during the marriage and, in most cases, they name their spouse as the beneficiary. It’s not unusual for divorcing couples to keep the existing life insurance in place after the divorce. But no matter what… Read more »
One of the many selling points for mediation versus litigation is time. In general, divorcing couples who are committed to resolving matters out of court can get divorced in far less time than it would take a case to go to through the court system. That said, a mediation should not be seen as a… Read more »
Many times I am asked about the most distinct difference between collaborative divorce and litigation and why collaborative divorce can be better. Perhaps the most notable difference lies in the communication. More specifically, the amount of direct contact you have with your spouse during the divorce process and negotiation.
You and your spouse have decided to divorce and your home is the primary marital asset. You agree you want the children to remain in the house. You even agree on which of the two of you stays in the house. Yet if the spouse who is staying on in the home cannot afford to… Read more »
When it comes to celebrating the holidays, many people hearken back to their childhoods and want to replicate their family rituals for their own children, including things like lighting the menorah, decorating the tree, opening one present only on Christmas Eve, etc. Yet, if you were not a child of divorce and now you and… Read more »
As a mediator or collaborative divorce attorney, questions are a huge part of my job. Yet more often than you think, I’m the one being asked the questions. And the one most often asked is “what would I ask before hiring an attorney?” The answer really depends on the type of lawyer needed—family attorney, mediator… Read more »
Have you ever been so angry you wanted to scream? Did you ever let yourself actually do so? You felt better afterwards, right? Probably much better, almost to the point that you weren’t really angry anymore? In a way, that’s the kind of catharsis hiring a divorce coach for your collaborative divorce can bring.