Tag: collaborative divorce attorney

Lawyers are counselors

That doesn’t mean we are therapists, but sometimes we need to think like one. That’s largely because it’s difficult to conduct any divorce settlement through the three types of divorces—litigation, divorce mediation, and collaborative divorce—without the emotional component playing a factor, large and small. If you know there will be a certain level of emotion… Read more »

Why you don’t want to go to court

“I’ll see you in court!” and statements like “having your day in court” might sound good and make for good drama. In divorce, unless you have no other alternative, it’s not a place you want to go for numerous reasons. Particularly if you and your spouse are able to come to an agreement through mediation… Read more »

How to convince your spouse on a collaborative divorce?

The voice inside my head says, “quickly”. That may sound a bit cold, but much can happen between the first conversation about getting a divorce you have with your spouse and the next one. And if you would prefer collaborative divorce, getting your spouse on board as soon as possible—especially before they retain an attorney—is… Read more »

Communicating to get divorced

You’re probably wondering how successful collaborative divorce could be if it relies on people who probably weren’t very good at communicating with each other negotiating important issues directly. Quite simply, the collaborative divorce model includes a coaching element where we work with each spouse on how to communicate with their ex within the process