Category: Collaborative Divorce

A way to get closure out of your divorce

Many people go through the divorce process and instead of gaining a sense of closure, they harbor bitterness and resentment. For some, the bitterness never goes away. Now, that could stem from the circumstances of the break-up and certainly every case is different. Yet the type of divorce you choose—-litigation, mediation or collaborative—can be a… Read more »

The call divorce lawyers dread

“___ introduced their new boy/girlfriend to the kids.” Introducing a new significant other before a divorce is final can derail even the smoothest negotiation, whether litigation, mediation or collaborative. Fortunately, collaborative divorce negotiations and the team approach it employs have built-in mechanisms to address these kinds of situations. Namely, a divorce coach. This video put… Read more »

How collaborative divorce is better

The pretext to any collaborative divorce is that both parties basically agree and make a pledge to negotiate in good faith to reach a settlement that works for both parties. Integral to a collaborative divorce is a team approach, using a neutral coach and experts. When explaining the approach to a client recently, he asked,… Read more »

More on why a neutral financial expert favors divorcing couples

Last month’s blog covered how working with a neutral financial expert as part of a collaborative divorce or mediation provides couples with the flexibility to craft an agreement to meet the current and immediate future needs of their family. This month’s blog offers a few more examples of why divorcing couples might want to go… Read more »

Having a neutral financial expert favors divorcing couples

Collaborative divorce and mediation provide couples the opportunity to customize the terms of their divorce to meet the current and immediate future needs of their family. Retaining a neutral financial expert and working with him/her offers an even better opportunity for couples to tailor an agreement that meets those needs. What exactly is a neutral… Read more »

Collaborative divorce has emotional benefits

You have probably heard divorce referred to as an emotional roller coaster or putting you through the wringer (at least emotionally). Yet I can say with certainty that collaborative divorce has many emotional benefits, definitely more than any other type of divorce. The collaborative divorce process involves working with a team of experts. Many times that… Read more »

The many layers of divorcing your business partner/spouse

It goes without saying the sting of divorce runs deep. For couples who are also business partners, it can present an even greater challenge as parting represents a change in your professional as well as personal life. Usually. It may sound odd, but some divorcing couples stay in business even after the divorce. Some even… Read more »

How to convince your spouse on a collaborative divorce?

The voice inside my head says, “quickly”. That may sound a bit cold, but much can happen between the first conversation about getting a divorce you have with your spouse and the next one. And if you would prefer collaborative divorce, getting your spouse on board as soon as possible—especially before they retain an attorney—is… Read more »

Addressing the gray areas of a gray divorce

In recent years, there has been an increase in divorces for couples over 50. Many of these couples have been married for two or more decades. While reasons for the increase in divorces from this demographic vary, it does reinforce one school of thought: the longer you are married, the more complicated the divorce. That’s… Read more »

Collaborative divorce can save the family house

If that’s really what you want. For many divorcing couples, that’s what they think they want and it can make things a bit contentious. If it’s a divorce by litigation, it can lead to the court making the decision for you—usually that is to sell the home and split the proceeds. Collaborative divorce keeps the… Read more »